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Ask the Advice Goddess: December 18, 2014 PDF Print E-mail
Lifestyle - Ask the Advice Goddess
Written by Amy Alkon   
Thursday, 18 December 2014 06:00

Amy AlkonThe Company You Keep Away

I’ve got an intense attraction to this musician I’ve been dating for four months. He’s on the road a lot, plus he’s new to the city and recently out of a relationship. He says he’s not ready to get serious now and just told me he wants us to be non-monogamous. The more I try to get close the more he pulls away. My girlfriends told me to stop chasing him and be much less available. I tried being less present, which, to my surprise, made him miss me and be more attentive. I’m disgusted at the need for manipulative game playing. How much longer do I need to keep this up?

Hate Games

There are times it makes sense to chase a man, like if he’s wearing Lycra knickers and making a dash for the end zone or he’s just run out of your house with your TV.

 


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