Eye Anxiety

I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years. I thought I was super-happy, but I recently got a crush on a co-worker. Now I’m worried that maybe I’m not totally satisfied in my relationship. If I were truly in love with my boyfriend, why would I be crushing on somebody else? Does this make me more vulnerable to cheating? Should we go into therapy?

– So Confused

You’re in a relationship, not a coma.