New Boys & Girls Club Director Remembers His Early Years

 

IA/IL QUAD-CITIES - After conducting a nationwide search, the Boys & Girls Clubs of the Mississippi Valley (BGCMV) Board of Directors has selected Tim Tolliver as their new Chief Professional Officer (CPO), the title given by Boys & Girls Clubs to their executive directors.

"We welcome Tim to our organization and to the Quad-Cities," said Chris Johnson, President of the BGCMV Board. "He brings a wealth of applicable skills and experience to the role of Chief Professional Officer."

"Tim Tolliver has dedicated his career to helping others," said Tim Stinson, Board Vice President and Search Committee Chair. "We are pleased that he is now a member of our community and we look forward to working with him."

Community members can meet Tim at the organization's 2013 Annual Steak & Burger Dinner. "This important fundraiser helps to open the door to a better future for Quad Cities youth and teens," said Johnson. "The Steak & Burger Dinner offers a fun night of socializing with the many friends of BGCMV, and attendees will meet Tim and have dinner with some of our Club members."

The fundraising event will be held 5:30 p.m. Tuesday, Nov. 5 at the iWireless Center, 1201 River Dr., Moline, IL. The social hour starts at 5:30 p.m., followed by dinner at 6:30 p.m. and the program at 7 p.m. Tickets are $50 each. Individual tickets and tables for groups are available by calling (309) 757-5777.

A Life Shaped by the Boys & Girls Clubs

"Truly, my life has been shaped for the better by my involvement with the Boys & Girls Clubs," Tim said. "I am happy to say, I was a Club kid as a child and my son was also a Club kid. It's a great place for young people to learn important values."

Tim, age 40, was born in St. Louis, Missouri. He attended high school at Cleveland Junior Naval Academy, named after President Grover Cleveland. He attended Missouri Valley College in Marshall, MO, where he majored in Political Science/Public Administration.

According to Tim, he might not have attended college if it weren't for the encouragement he'd received from the Boys and Girls Club. He started attending what is now the Herbert Hoover Boys and Girls Club of Greater St. Louis at age 8. "Back then, it was a club for boys," he said. "Girls became part of the club in 1991, which is the year I graduated from the club."

Tim stated that he grew up in one of the most dangerous neighborhoods in St. Louis. "Gangs were running rampant, since the Los Angeles gangs, the Cripps and the Bloods, were working their way into that area," he said. "The club was my safe haven. My mom felt a lot better, knowing I was hanging out there. Back then it was a 'swim and gym' - other recreations there included pool, foosball and ping pong."

The big reason Tim kept going to the club, he noted, was because of the positive reinforcement he received. "I had many friends there and the camaraderie kept me coming back," he said. "I developed strong friendships with the people who worked there, like the social recreation leader, Mr. Bates, and the gym and sports director, Mr. Mitch. Mr. Mitch recruited me to play baseball for their team, and I eventually moved into basketball."

In those days, Tim observed, the big draw of the club for him was sports, but he also became involved with Keystone Club, the group's leadership and service club. "The kids who are a part of Keystone help others in the community and learn the value of volunteer service," he said.

At age 16, Tim was vice president of his club's Keystone group. "We got to go places and also took part in fundraising," he said. "A lot of kids didn't get to leave their neighborhoods very much, so taking part in Keystone Club helped them to see more of what the world had to offer. For many, it was the first time they'd ever left the inner city."

Dedicated to Serving Others

Over the years, Tim has held key positions of guidance and leadership where he could help the community. Early in his career, from January 1998 to February 2010, he served as the Branch Executive Director of the Boys & Girls Club of Greater Dallas/Collin County in Dallas/McKinney, Texas.

From February 2010 to December 2011, Tim worked as the Associate Services/Shelter Manager for the Metro Dallas Homeless Alliance in Dallas. When that position was eliminated due to budget cuts, he became the Chief Executive Officer of the Children's Advocacy Center in Van Zandt/Kaufman County, Texas. He held that position from May 2012 to February 2013, when a state realignment resulted in an unaccepted transfer offer that did not meet his future plans.

He had been working with the St. Louis Public Schools when he heard about the opening in the Quad-Cities as the CPO of the Boys and Girls Club of the Mississippi Valley. "When I first read about it, I thought the position was located in the state of Mississippi," he said with a laugh. "I was happy to find out it was much closer than that!"

"The community is invited to come and meet Tim Tolliver at the Steak & Burger event and also enjoy our youth group performances," said Johnson. "It will be an enjoyable evening, and the funds raised through this event represent an investment in our community's future and quality of life."

The Boys & Girls Clubs of the Mississippi Valley, as a chartered member of Boys and Girls Clubs of America, is a tax-exempt organization, duly qualified under Section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code, and contributions are tax-deductible in accordance with Federal law.

For more information on the Boys & Girls Clubs of the Mississippi Valley, please call (309) 757-5777 or visit www.bgcmv.org.

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FOLLOW UP:  The caboose is located next to the camp's train depot and overlooks the camp's new Lake Todd.

At approximately 11 AM today (10/28/13) a caboose was delivered to Camp Courageous. This caboose is being donated by CRANDIC and will be a living quarters for volunteers working at the camp.

Earlier, the caboose went from CRANDIC to ADM to be sandblasted, painted and redesigned to provide living space for volunteers and staff at Camp Courageous. A big thank you to Donny Coonrod who will be donating the transportation and crane work to get the caboose from Cedar Rapids to camp. Jerry McElmeel will also be part of the move to Camp Courageous.

One Small Donation Provides Flowers for a Year

Christian Care, in cooperation with Colman Florists and Greenhouses, is offering a unique fundraising opportunity. For a one-time donation of only $20, you will receive a seasonal bouquet of flowers each month for a year and half the proceeds will go to Christian Care to provide shelter and services for the homeless and survivors of domestic violence in our community. This outstanding value means that you will have the opportunity to brighten up your home or office with flowers while you brighten up the lives of others?all year long. This opportunity only lasts from October 1 to November 30, so please act quickly.

Every month has its own theme. For example, February's bouquet is Love Bunch, July offers the Sizzling Summer Bouquet and November features the Harvest Bouquet. Each bouquet is sure to bring color, fragrance and beauty to even the darkest day. Becoming a part of this select group allows you access to other great values at Colman. For example, when you buy a half dozen roses, you will receive the second half dozen FREE! You can also opt to trade your monthly bouquet for $10 off a purchase of $35 or more. Do this twice and you've made your original investment back.

For more details, please contact Lindsey at (309)786-5734 or email lprobizanski@christiancareqc.org. Colman Florist and Greenhouses is located at 2754 12th Street, Rock Island, Illinois and in the East Village in Davenport, Iowa. You can also visit them on the web at colmanflorist.com. Monthly bouquets must be redeemed at the Colman location in the state in which you reside.

Christian Care's services are available in the Quad Cities to a growing number of homeless men and abused women and children 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Through their two facilities?a domestic violence shelter for abused women and children and a rescue mission for homeless men?they provide safe shelter, nutritious meals, clothing, counseling, referrals and guidance to anyone in need. They serve homeless individuals, victims of domestic violence, veterans, men and women coming out of prison, and the mentally ill. Their vision is to transform the lives of those they serve by providing their residents with an opportunity to start a new, more productive life. If you know someone in need, call the Christian Care Crisis Hotline at any hour of the day or night at (309) 788-2273.

For more information about Christian Care, please go to their web site at christiancareqc.org or to Facebook at facebook.com/christiancareqc.

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Halloween Themed Trivia Night -November 2nd, at 7:00 pm/doors open at 6:30.  Location: Knights of Columbus 1111 W 35th St, Davenport, IA 52806. This is regular trivia questions with a twist- the night is hosted by a Trivia Jockey who plays a song between questions. (To clarify, questions are not specifically Halloween OR music related) In addition, there is a prize for best costume and best themed table.

Contact Renee.luze-johnson@scottcountyiowa.com to reserve your table or call 563-326-8713.  Registration at the door or reserve in advance $10.00 per person, maximum at a table is 8. Tables can be reserved with less than 8.  Top prize $150.00.  Snacks are welcome, all beverages must be purchased at the Knights of Columbus.  Find more information at www.scottcountyiowa.com.  Event hosted by the Scott County United Way Committee.
Davenport, IA (November 2013)  Gilda's Club will host George Kovach, MD, Certified in
Internal Medicine and Hematology, physician with Iowa Cancer Specialists for a free, two-hour
Workshop covering the latest treatments for lung cancer. Our expert speaker will also discuss
side effects, side-effect management, and tools to overcome the social and emotional
challenges of the diagnosis. We hope to answer many of your questions about lung cancer to
help you (or your loved one) manage the disease more successfully. The Workshop will take
place on Thursday, November 7th at 6:00 p.m. at Gilda's Club Quad Cities, 1234 East River
Drive, Davenport, Iowa.

Advanced Registration is preferred as dinner is included.

For more details and registration, call (563)-326-7504 or email melissa@gi|dasclubqc.org

Is the thought of Christmas making you feel bleak? Let us help.

The Salvation Army of the Quad Cities Announces the Christmas Assistance Program

Quad Cities: The Salvation Army's Christmas Assistance Program - a community wide effort - is The Salvation Army's largest outreach event each year. Last year, for example, more than 6,000 toys and gifts were distributed to 2,206 children and more than 1,900 households received food.

Families who would like to receive assistance during the holidays must register and complete the application process before December 6th.

Registration Location in Scott County, IOWA

3400 W. Central Park Avenue, Davenport 563-391-5325

Registration Location in Rock Island County, ILLINOIS

2200 - 5th Avenue, Moline 309-764-6996

 

Registration Dates and Times for both Locations:

Mondays– 12:00PM to 2:30PM On October 28; November 4, 11, 18, 25; and December 2

Wednesdays– 1:00PM to 4:00PM On October 30; November 6, 13, 20; and December 4

Fridays– 11am-2pm On November 1, 8, 15, 22; and December

What to bring: Applications will not be taken without the items below:

1. Adults: a. Picture ID with valid date, b. Social Security card & c. Proof of address (2 pieces of mail)

2. Children: a. Social Security Cards or b. Medical Cards or c. Birth certificates for each child.

3. Proof of: a. Household Income & b. Federal or State Benefits.

Generous Quad Cities residents make this program possible with their monetary donations, as well as donations of toys through the Angel Giving Trees. Beginning November 2, Angel Trees will be displayed at all QC Wal-Marts. NorthPark and SouthPark Mall will again host trees in their JC Penney and Younkers Courts, respectively, starting November 29.

To volunteer with The Salvation Army this season, please go to www.ringbells.org.

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Dubuque, Iowa- Capri Colleges (Cedar Rapids, Davenport, and Dubuque) is excited to announce their fifth annual Breast Cancer Fundraiser. Capri College rose over $27,000 the past four years for local, non-profit organizations. This year's large raffle item includes one year FREE services at Capri College Student Salon & Spa.

"We are exceptionally proud to support our local communities with this event," said Abigail Degenhardt, marketing director.

Stop by Capri College during the month of October to enter the raffle drawing for ONE year FREE services at Capri's Student Salon & Spa*, CHI flat iron, CHI blow-dryer & much more! *Some restrictions apply. Ask for details. 

Raffle Tickets - $5 each or 5 for $20.

Fight Breast Cancer by stopping by Capri College on Thursday, October 24th or call to schedule an appointment. Capri will be providing discounted services including $5 haircuts, hand massages, polish change and paraffin dip all proceeds supporting breast cancer.

Cedar Rapids     2945 Williams Pkwy SW       319-364-1541 Proceeds Donated to: Especially for You

Davenport          2540 E. 53rd Street                 563-388-6642 Proceeds Donated to: Genesis Cancer Center

Dubuque            395 Main Street                     563-588-2379 Proceeds Donated to: Images & Information

Capri College Mission Statement: "Capri College is dedicated to providing the highest quality education possible. We enroll, educate and graduate individuals in an ethical and respectful manner, ready to excel in the field of their choice."

For more information, contact Capri College, at (800) 728-0712 or visit us on the web at www.capricollege.edu.                               ###

PORT BYRON, IL - The Nick Teddy Foundation, in partnership with First Wealth Financial
Group of Clinton, IA, is pleased to announce proceeds results for its Second Annual "Nick Teddy
Fight Against Ewing's Sarcoma 5k."

The Port Byron-based foundation will donate $20,000 to the Liddy Shriver Sarcoma Initiative, to
be used exclusively for Ewing's sarcoma research. The rare pediatric bone cancer currently
affects several area children and young adults. An additional $5,000 will be used to support
these local patients and their families.

The "Nick Teddy 5k" is an annual celebration of the life of Port Byron native Nicholas Theodore
Strub, who died of Ewing's sarcoma in November 2011 at age 29. The Nick Teddy Foundation
was established in his memory, and works to raise money for Ewing's sarcoma research, to
increase awareness of the disease in the Quad City area, and to support local Ewing's patients
and their families. In two short years, the foundation has donated over $37,000 to Ewing's
sarcoma research.

Leah Shaw, Ewing's patient from Clinton, IA, crosses the finish line at the Nick Teddy 5k
This year's event was held in Port Byron, IL, on Saturday, September 14, and included a 1-mile
family fun run/walk, a kids' dash for children 6 years of age and under, and the 5k run/walk. The
festivities also included kids' games, a silent auction and raffle, and an after party with food and
live entertainment.

More information can be found online at: http://www.NickTeddy.org, on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/NickTeddyOrg); on Twitter (http://www.twitter.com/NickTeddyOrg).


Every nine minutes the Red Cross responds to disasters in local communities throughout the U.S.

And behind each and every meal served, blanket given and counseling service provided is a Red Cross supporter like you who makes it possible. The Red Cross works 24 hours a day down the street and across the country.

Take a look at what just one field office accomplishes in a given day by spending 24 hours with the Greater New York Red Cross:

UU 101 CLASS Saturday November 2, 2013 Including:

*A brief history of our congregation and the Unitarian and Universalist movements in the United States *How to get involved in activities of the congregation *How the church is governed *What is stewardship and what is expected of members of the congregation *There will be a mini-connection circle.  Lunch and childcare will be provided, but we need to know in advance if you can attend and if you need childcare.

Please call Stephanie at the office 563-359-0816 or Melanie Landa 563-320-6106

MINDFULNESS MEDITATION PRACTICE BEGINS!

 

For many years I have maintained a personal Vipassana Meditation Practice.  In addition, I have participated in and led meditation groups.  My meditation practice has helped me remain centered and focused throughout my life.

 

Please join us for the start of a Mindfulness Meditation Group as part of our Spiritual Practices and Program Team.  We will meet every Tuesday night (unless otherwise mutually agreed) starting October 15th from 5:30-6:30 in the Sanctuary.  All are welcome whether you are new to meditation or if you have meditated a long time.  There is no commitment to show up.  Feel free to drop in whenever you can make it.   The format will include a brief instruction, formal seated meditation, (possibly a walking meditation) a reading, short discussion time and checkout. I look forward to being with you. Rev. Jay

 

If you need childcare, please call the office at least 48 hours in advance at (563) 359-0816.

 

What Moves Us
Please join Rev. Jay Wolin as he utilizes the Tapestry of Faith curriculum "What Moves Us" to "explore the life experiences of historic Unitarian Universalist theologians, highlighting that which caused in them a change of heart, a new direction, new hope, and a deeper understanding of their own liberal faith. These workshops offer participants a chance to engage with and bring their personal experiences to bear on the very questions explored by each theologian in turn. The program offers a pathway for developing not only one's own personal theology but also one's deep understanding of the threads of our Unitarian, Universalist, and Unitarian Universalist theological heritage."  The classes will be on Wednesday nights from 7-8:30pm in the Lounge.


October 30th                Hosea Ballou's Theology of Happiness.

November 6th               William Ellery Channing's Theology of Emotional Struggle.

November 13th              Margaret Fuller's Liberal Theology of the Human Heart.

If childcare is needed, please notify us at least 48 hours in advance at 563-359-0816.

CAKES FOR THE QUEEN OF HEAVEN SERIES UU CONNECTION CIRCLE

Look for signup sheet in the lobby. *PLEASE SIGN UP FOR EACH SERIES YOU WANT TO ATTEND*

Start date is October 24 2013, continuing on the second and fourth Thursday through July, 2014

There are three sessions throughout the year; this means a person can attend session one, two or three or attend all sessions or a combination of them that fits your needs.

  • SESSION I -- IN ANCIENT TIMES -- FIVE SESSIONS - OCTOBER 24 - DECEMBER 26, 2013 [we will work around the holidays]
  • SESSION II -- ON THE TRHESHOLD -- SIX SESSIONS - JANUARY 9 -- MARCH 27, 2014
  • SESSION III -- UNRAVELING THE GENDER KNOT -- SEVEN SESSIONS - APRIL 10 -- JULY 10, 2014.


The material is grounded in feminist thealogy and based on the cakes for the queen of heaven by Shirly Ranck and unraveling the gender knot by Barbara G. Schonborn, PhD, rosemary Matson Ba, and the late Alison Campbell, Ma.

GLBTQIA  Connection Circle

Tuesdays 6:30-8pm November 5 - December 17 Meet others to discuss current topics related to GLBTQIA related issues.

Eight Sessions -  Topics Include

1. Terms/Labels/Definitions/Symbols/Slang

2. Public Figures/History/Authors

3. Legal/Employment/Politics/Crime

4. Dating/Marriage/ Family/Commitments

5. Personal Journey/Coming Out Stories

6. Medical Issues/Mental Health/Suicide/Drugs

7. Support/Resources/Interweave/Religion

What is a Connection Circle?

This is more than a group discussion! Covenant groups are a transformational practice through which we, with others, can discover our own underlying assumptions about reality and examine our ways of being. Participants engage with others in reflection and suspend judgment long enough to hear respectfully the understandings of others, even those vastly different from their own.

Due to the nature of the group, participants are asked to attend all or most of the gatherings. This encourages relationship building, trust, and development of community.

The Connection Circle is based on caring, listening and respect. Group rules allow everyone to talk and ask everyone to listen. The goal is for a balance between total confidentiality and relationship building. Participants should learn something new and gain wider perspectives.

Register Soon!

The group will be limited to 12, so register as soon as you can. A waiting list will be kept with the possibility of additional group formations.

To register or for questions contact:

Christine  Phone: 563.359.0816 or Email natursoul3@aol.com

The curriculum explores female religious history in the western tradition, including Jewish, Christian and earth centered traditions.  The gender knot materials include gender, religion, feminism, economics, invisibility and denial and how to challenge the patriarchal system.

The group is open only to women, in order to better explore the multiple meanings and roles of the female divine in women's lives.

CONTACT LANA LONG [LANASUE6@MSN.COM] OR LUCIA DRYANSKI [MUDCREEKPRAIRIE@NTINS.NET] FOR MORE INFORMATION.

If childcare is needed, please notify us at least 48 hours in advance at 563-359-0816.

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