A Few Precautions Help Reduce Risks So You Can Focus On Fun, Globetrotting Author Says

Perhaps more than ever, women are willing to ditch their traveling companions and go solo when it comes time to hit the road and see the world.

A survey by Small Luxury Hotels of the World, for example, revealed that between 2011 and 2012 there was a 53 percent increase in the demand for rooms by women traveling alone.

The London Daily Mail also reports that some hotels have taken steps to make their accommodations more appealing to women traveling on their own, with such features as women-only floors.

Still, despite the trend, many women may worry that such solitary excursions carry too many risks, making them a target for thieves, kidnappers and other criminals.

But one woman who has logged endless miles exploring the world and finding romance says it doesn't have to be that way.

"There is no reason to let your fears keep you from the adventures you can experience," says Barbara Foster, a veteran globetrotter and author of the book "The Confessions of a Librarian: A Memoir of Loves." (www.threelovestory.com)

"Sure, there are risky places and bad types out there. But with the right precautions, women can travel solo with confidence, visiting the places and meeting the people they always dreamed of and returning home with wonderful stories and memories."

Foster speaks from experience. Her travels have taken her across the country and around the world, with stops in Istanbul, Bombay, Buenos Aires, Jerusalem and other locales.

As an adventurer, Foster is something of a contradiction. She describes herself as a librarian who has difficulty reading flight schedules, and suspects a haggling merchant in an Arab bazaar would view her as easy pickings.

He would be mistaken.

While Foster has spent a professional lifetime in academia, and co-authored books on such esoteric subjects as Tibetan Buddhism, she also is steeped in real-life experience.

Foster, who says solo trips can be deeply rewarding for women, offers five tips for traveling boldly while staying safe.

•  Steer clear of the most dangerous locales. Simply put, some places just aren't worth the risk, so avoid "no go" neighborhoods, cities and countries. For example, if you feel compelled to go to the Middle East, visit Israel, which is the safest Middle Eastern country. Still, if the destination is truly important to you, go ahead and take the risk. India can be dangerous and Foster says she was nearly kidnapped there, saved only by the intervention of a librarian friend. At the same time, she says, the country offers a once in a lifetime experience.

•  Connect with friendly contacts. Make yourself known not only to the U.S. embassy or consul, but also to people in your field, Foster says. During her travels, Foster wrote articles about libraries she visited. Her fellow librarians were a protective group.

•  Learn the language or at least useful phrases. Even if it's just a few key words, speaking the language can come in handy if you need to seek assistance. Understanding what others are saying also can alert you to potential dangers.

•  Dress wisely, pay attention to manners and spend money in moderation. Essentially, don't draw unnecessary attention to yourself. In her book, Foster recounts a visit to Istanbul where she watched horror-struck as two Turkish men slapped a young British woman for wearing a miniskirt on the street. For added protection against thieves, Foster recommends carrying money and identification in a pouch under your shirt.

•  Travel in the USA. You will miss many of the world's must-see places, but if the thought of traveling abroad holds too much stress for you, it might be better to stick closer to home. Foster says two of her favorite U.S. cities are New York and New Orleans, both great places to explore.

About Barbara Foster

Barbara Foster has worked as a college librarian and as an associate professor specializing in Women's Studies at the City University of New York. She has published numerous articles on education and travel, as well as more than 200 poems in literary journals under the name Belladonna. Her latest book is "The Confessions of a Librarian: A Memoir of Loves." (www.threelovestory.com)

Investigate - Don't Panic!

By Kerry Mills

So often I'll receive a call from clients concerned about a sudden behavioral change in a memory-impaired resident. And, all too often the cause is an introduction of new medication or a change in the dosage of an existing one. Surprisingly, the first interpretation of the behavioral change is that the "dementia has advanced."

Let me stress for the record that the progressive stages of dementia do not normally advance suddenly. Progression occurs gradually over time. So, if you notice a sudden behavioral change in a resident or a loved one, it would be wise to consider all possible contributing factors and not conclude the worst-case scenario - a sudden progression of the disease.

Just such an instance happened recently with a man I will call Arthur, who is in the beginning stages of Alzheimer's. His situation unfolded like this: His wonderful wife, Alice, regularly returns to her home country, in Europe, for a few weeks to see her family while Arthur stays home. This year, Arthur was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. Alice had a decision to make, should she take her trip or stay home with Arthur?

Arthur and Alice have a son who lives with them and he has been a great team member. Arthur is still working part time and attending church every week. Their daughter lives local and stops in whenever she is needed. I encouraged Alice to take the trip, knowing that this might be her last opportunity to go home for quite some time. So, Alice went to Europe and when she returned, Arthur had changed a great deal. He was sleeping all the time, had lost about five pounds, was not interested in doing anything (almost appeared depressed), and seemed disinterested in seeing his "dear ole Alice."

What happened?! Alice called the doctor, who said, "I think the major change of your going away pushed him into the next stage of the disease." What a blow! Alice's guilt quotient went through the roof. She immediately regretted her visit home and felt terrible that she chose to do what she needed to do for herself instead of staying home and caring for her husband.

I advised Alice that I didn't think her being gone for a few weeks was the likely cause of Arthur's lapse in behavior. It seemed to me that maybe there was more going on. I suggested that maybe Arthur had become a bit depressed because he missed her and within a few days, he might be better. I knew that they had been adjusting his medication before she left and asked if there were any changes made. I suggested she ask the doctors if any of the medications could have caused these changes in Arthur. As it turned out, Arthur had started a new medication just days before Alice went away. As soon as he stopped taking this medication, Arthur quickly reverted to his lovable self.

There are a few lessons in this event that are worth noting.

• The first is twofold. If possible, avoid starting a new medication while the primary care partner is absent for an extended period of time. Also, expect that medication changes will likely result in behavioral changes.

• Second, a change in primary care partner should not be done abruptly. Instead, the new care partner should be merged into the environment slowly while the more familiar care partner is still a part of the scene. Once the loved one appears to be at ease with the new care partner, the more familiar care partner can exit the environment.

• Third lesson - we, as professionals, need to be careful when offering opinions and reasons for changes in behavior, especially if the care partner's competency is called into question.

When a behavioral change does occur, don't panic. Instead, go through a checklist of what might be the cause. Here is a checklist I use in such instances and have found to be very helpful:

1) Has there been any recent change in medication or dosage?

2) Have there been any changes to the environment?

3) Might this person have a urinary tract infection?

4) Has the daily routine been altered?

5) Has there been a change in care partners?

6) Have there been new demands placed on the person?

We have just begun a new year. This is a perfect time to improve your care-giving techniques in order to have more productive interaction with your loved one or a resident who is under your care.

While occasional and erratic behavior is often a symptom of dementia, we should always investigate to determine if an environmental change is causing or contributing to the behavior.

Let's all work to reduce stress this spring!

About Kerry Mills

Kerry Mills, MPA, is an expert in best care practices for persons with dementia both in the home and in out-of-home health care residences and organizations. She is a consultant to numerous hospitals, assisted livings, hospice, home care agencies, senior day care centers and nursing homes. In her twelve-year career in health care, she has served as executive director and regional manager for numerous long-term dementia facilities. She is an outspoken advocate for persons with dementia, lecturing in Hong Kong, Canada, China, Europe and the United States. Her book, coauthored with Jennifer A. Brush, "I Care," (engagingalzheimers.com), is the 2014 Gold Award Winner of the National Mature Media Awards.

Nutrition Icon Breaks Down The Health Benefits

After a brutally cold winter for much of the country, it's time to embrace the changing season and cleanse and rejuvenate our bodies with lighter foods, juices and smoothies, says nutritionist and juicing pioneer Cherie Calbom, MS. ("The Juice Lady").

What's considered healthy and unhealthy seems to change on a regular basis, which is why it's helpful to recognize further studies that confirm previous findings. Most recently, a study by Georgia State University microbiologist Benoit Chassaing has further confirmed the destructive properties of an inflammatory diet.

Researchers found that common additives in processed foods including ice cream, margarine, packaged bread and many more may promote the inflammatory bowel diseases ulcerative colitis and Crohn's disease as well as a group of obesity-related conditions.

"It's not only intestinal problems; low-grade inflammation caused by food additives has been shown to contribute to weight gain and blood sugar control problems, as well as a host of other chronic disease," says Calbom, author of "The Juice Lady's Anti-Inflammation Diet" (www.juiceladycherie.com), which offers healthy meal options, smoothies and robust juice recipes to help readers live an anti-inflammation lifestyle.

"No matter the kind of diet you may lean toward - vegetarian, vegan, low-carb, no-carb, Mediterranean, Neanderthal or any other kind of diet - any and all anti-inflammation efforts are well worth it!"

Healthy juices and shakes are a convenient way to reduce inflammation, revitalize your cells and lose some of those winter pounds.

"Yes, you can lose weight on the anti-inflammation diet and rejuvenate your body," says Calbom, who offers just a few of her recipes and discusses their health benefits.

•  Anti-Inflammatory Cocktail
1 green apple
½ large fennel with fronds
1-inch-piece ginger root
1 large broccoli stem
3 leaves kale
½ cucumber, peeled if not organic

Cut produce to fit your juicer. Start by juicing the apple and finish with the cucumber. Drink as soon as possible.

Benefits
Fennel: anti-inflammatory, anti-histamine, analgesic, and antioxidant
Apple: inhibits the development of allergies; rich in histamine-lowering quercetin
Cucumber: analgesic (pain killer); antioxidant that prevents the synthesis of the inflammatory compound prostaglandin
Broccoli: anti-carcinogenic, prevents gastric mucosal damage (suggesting potential histamine-lowering action)
Ginger: as effective as an H2 receptor antagonist prescription drug

•  Morning Energy
1 - 2 carrots, scrubbed well, tops removed, ends trimmed
½ small beet, with leaves
1 cucumber, peeled if not organic
1 handful spinach or several chard leaves
½ lemon, peeled
1-inch-piece ginger root, scrubbed, peeled if old

Cut produce to fit your juicer's feed tube. Juice all ingredients and stir. Pour into a glass and drink as soon as possible.

Benefits
Beets contain unique phytonutrients called betalains, which have been shown to provide antioxidant, anti-inflammatory and detoxification effects.

•  Antioxidant Power Smoothie
1 cup unsweetened plant milk such as hemp, coconut, or almond milk
½ cup blueberries
1 pear
½ cup baby spinach
1 tsp. Indian gooseberry extract (optional)*
1 Tbsp. flaxseed
Ice cubes (optional, depending on how cold you like your smoothie)

Add all ingredients to a blender and process until smooth.

Benefits
Berries help prevent damaging effects of free radicals and inflammation by turning off the inflammation signals triggered by cytokines and COX-2s, making them an ideal part of your diet.

Cherie Calbom, M.S.

Cherie Calbom holds a Master of Science degree in whole foods nutrition from Bastyr University. She is author of 26 books including The Juice Lady's Anti- Inflammation Diet (www.juiceladycherie.com), The Juice Lady's Big Book of Juices and Green Smoothies, The Juice Lady's Turbo Diet, Juicing, Fasting, and Detoxing for Life, The Juice Lady's Living Foods Revolution, The Complete Cancer Cleanse, and Juicing for Life with over 2 million books sold in the U.S. and published in 23 countries. She has worked as a celebrity nutritionist with George Foreman and Richard Simmons, and has appeared on numerous radio and TV shows and in scores of magazine articles. She appeared on QVC for more than 13 years with the George Foreman grill. Known as "The Juice Lady" for her work with juicing and health, her juice therapy and cleansing programs have been popular for more than a decade.

From Dollar Amount To The Intangibles, M.D. Says Condition Is A Ubiquitous Factor In Life

Sometimes celebrities or otherwise physically fit people will put on a fat suit and document their experience with a video camera, usually to be aired on a daytime talk show. The overall impression is universal: Being severely overweight is taxing on almost every level, says Dr. Eleazar Kadile, who specializes in treating patients with obesity and associated chronic disease.

"Physically, emotionally, mentally and even spiritually, being obese is an ever-present condition to the experience my clients face every day," says Dr. Kadile, director of the Center for Integrative Medicine and author of "Stop Dying Fat" (www.kppmd.com).

"Obesity is a vicious cycle that usually starts with bad eating habits during childhood. Childhood obesity has quadrupled in recent decades. I don't think enough of us appreciate how established bad habits are before most obese people reach adulthood."

Overweight or obese people often eat for comfort when they're depressed or as a reward when things are going well, "much like an alcoholic," says Dr. Kadile.

Like substance abusers, obese people pay a significant price.

•  Bigger is costlier. Many are emotional eaters, and when you eat for emotional satisfaction rather than physical satiation, you eat more, which increases the dollars spent. Obese people often have to buy clothes specially tailored for their size, which adds costs. The biggest cost, however, is healthcare due to bad health. Obesity has severely taxed our country's healthcare costs.

•  What's your self-esteem worth? Being a large individual often proves challenging in public, as daytime talk shows sometimes attest. Obesity can keep you from social engagements and make you feel self-conscious while out and about. This can lead to depression and lack of activity, fueling the vicious cycle of the obese lifestyle.

•  Time - arguably the most important metric. What do we really have in life? Money, work, love, relationships and material goods - these are all good and necessary things. But they are all for not if your health does not permit you to live long enough to enjoy them.

•  Opportunities, quality of life and happiness are compromised. You can be the most qualified professional at work, but obesity can cost you a raise. You may be a funny, intelligent and attractive person, but being too big might keep you from finding love. Simply having 100 or 200 pounds of extra fat is a burden obese people cannot escape throughout their waking existence.

"As a society, we should be more compassionate toward obese individuals - they have it hard enough without our critical judgment," Dr. Kadile says. "If you are obese, you owe it to yourself and your loved ones to save on the associated tangible and intangible costs. If you don't take action today, it can cost you many days from your future that you'd otherwise have."

About Eleazar Kadile, M.D.

Dr. Eleazar Kadile is a complementary physician who specializes in treating patients with obesity, who may suffer from heart disease, hypertension, type-2 diabetes, arthritis, depression or ADHD. With decades of medical experience throughout the United States, he has been developing a comprehensive and systematic approach to battling obesity. He is the director of the Center for Integrative Medicine in Green Bay, Wis. (www.kppmd.com).

Best-Selling 'E-Myth' Author Michael E. Gerber Is Determined To Shock People Out Of Their Stupor

Michael E. Gerber is miffed and he doesn't care who knows it.

The best-selling author of the "E-Myth" book series says the American Dream has been waylaid - no different than if it had been besieged by robbers in a dark alley - and Gerber is intent on rescuing it.

The way Gerber sees it, the issue is our confusion about the American Dream and what every one of us believe to be true about it. And it's time to get it back on track, says the fiery 78-year-old small-business guru who vaulted to fame in 1986 with his original "E-Myth" book and has been engaged in realizing a dream of his own over the past 40 years.

"Somehow we've forgotten our roots and why there was an American Dream to begin with," Gerber says. "We've lost track of the reason why millions upon millions of people came here to try to make a better future for themselves. We've also forgotten that the dream never was a political one, but a personal one for each and every one of us.  It's the politicizing of it that's created all the trouble."

Gerber (www.michaelegerbercompanies.com) has a great deal of experience in how to restore faith in the American dream. He has worked with tens of thousands of small business owners over the past 40 years.

The trick, Gerber says, is giving small business owners and aspiring small business owners a splash of cold water to wake them up to see that the American Dream isn't dead, nor is their business. Instead, what they are missing is a lack of commitment to their own dream.

To bring his point home, Gerber began a nationwide campaign this year in Riverside, Calif., where the city's mayor, Rusty Bailey, helped launch Gerber's first city-sponsored Dreaming Room.

Gerber invented the Dreaming Room, which he describes as an "entrepreneurial incubator," in 2005, and has been delivering it to individuals worldwide ever since. It's a program where the unemployed, underemployed, self-employed or small business owners who find themselves stuck in their current unworkable circumstances join together, led by a facilitator.

In an intense, small-group setting they go through a step-by-step process where they create, collaborate and test ideas to develop or improve their current circumstances by inventing a new business.

Once developed, the concept for that new business is then put to work, with Gerber's team helping the new entrepreneur apply Gerber's entrepreneurial principles to design, build, launch and grow their new company.

Riverside was just a first step in Gerber's vision for city-sponsored economic development initiatives in cities and counties throughout the nation and the world. Having launched Riverside, it's on to Fresno and the 14 counties surrounding that California city of 509,000 people. In May, Gerber plans a Dreaming Room for the 96 mayors of all the cities in those counties "to awaken the spirit of entrepreneurship in them."

"We will be teaching people how to make it on their own in Fresno, San Mateo, and every U.S. city who invites us in, you name it," Gerber says. "In the process of inspiring and leading them and mentoring them, something remarkable will happen. Each and every individual will understand, many for the very first time, that he or she and no one else is responsible for their circumstances."

Even as he makes more Dreaming Room plans, the prolific Gerber is still pounding out books, with three he's working on simultaneously. They are "Beyond the E-Myth," "The 5 Essential Skills of Extraordinary People" and "Making It on Your Own in America."

The latter title has become an overriding theme for him of late. For Gerber, economic development is all about the individual and how personal responsibility is the key to making it in America.

"It happens with the individual or it doesn't happen at all," he says. "Every single individual is accountable for their own economy - an 'economy of one'".

"Our economic problem has been created through the belief that big government can solve our problems. We then created a monster of a government that presumes to think for us. That's why our economy is in tatters. It's why the number of people on food stamps has grown exponentially. It's why the number of people who are impoverished has grown, and the number of unemployed has grown exponentially. It's also why our federal debts and deficits have grown beyond the pale."

"The way forward is to go back", Gerber says. "Back to those inspirational days when the nation took its first awkward steps, the Constitution was written and the Bill of Rights was tacked on like a brilliant afterthought".

"If it becomes a political discussion, it misses the point," Gerber says. "It was never political back then, it was existential. It was an existential reality to liberate each of us to follow our own path."

About Michael E. Gerber

Michael E. Gerber (www.michaelegerbercompanies.com) is an entrepreneur, thought leader, speaker and best-selling author whose modern classic, "The E-Myth: Why Most Businesses Don't Work and What to Do About It," has sold more than 3 million copies. He is the founder of The Dreaming Room™, where entrepreneurs and others are provided the tools and facilitation to see, experience, develop and design their Dream, Vision, Purpose and Mission. His next book, "Beyond The E-Myth" is a passionate response to America's current inspiration deficit.

Research Reveals Great Friends Lead To Good Health,
But That's Just A Byproduct, Author Says

Numerous scientific studies show that developing friendships is an essential ingredient to a healthy life.

But few people are intentionally trying to avoid heart disease or improve their blood pressure when they seek out, or stumble into, new friendships. Instead, they just want someone to hang out with, confide in or trust in times of trouble, says Darlene Quinn, an author whose latest novel, "Conflicting Webs" (www.darlenequinn.net), uses friendship as an underlying theme.

"Friends can start out from a variety of places, but still share the same incredible bond," Quinn says "Sometimes that bond can span a lifetime. Other times, the bond is just for a short period. Either way, friendships are a vital part of life."

As she researched her novel, Quinn became fascinated by the motivations behind friendships. Not all friendships are equal and, over the long haul, not all turn out the way people might like.

"Having a mutually beneficial relationship is crucial," Quinn says. "If only one person is willing to put in time and effort, that friendship won't work.

"We tend to intuitively know who real friends are and which friendships are worth our time and energy."

Quinn said she found at least six factors that can lead to great friendships - three that bring people together and three that keep them together:

•  Similarity. The phrase "birds of a feather flock together" has been around at least since the 16th century, and it's no wonder it became such a well-worn cliché, Quinn says. It happens to be true. "We surround ourselves with people whose style, attitudes, personalities, likes, dislikes and mannerisms are similar to ours," she says. "Those similarities help to build an instant bond. We feel comfortable around those people and easily slide into conversations about topics that interest both of us or schedule activities we both enjoy."

•  Intrigue. Sometimes people are so fascinating that we can't help but be drawn to them, Quinn says. "We can build a great bond of friendship with someone when we are genuinely curious about their stories, their lifestyle or their backgrounds," she says.

•  History. Growing up together, or going through the same or similar experiences, can lead to a lasting connection between two people. "Other people may not be able to have a good understanding of, or empathy for, a situation you went through," Quinn says. "But this person understands you because they went through it, too. Sharing a past with someone definitely can create a special bond."

•  Positive influence. A great friend will be someone who is a good influence and will support you and your goals, Quinn says. "They should inspire you to live up to your highest potential so you can be your best self." The world has enough negativity, she says. You don't need that in a friend.

•  Your happiness. True friends want to see you happy. "The best kinds of friends are the ones who have your best interests at heart, even to a fault," Quinn says. "They may tell you something you don't want to hear at the risk of fracturing the friendship, just because they know it is in your best interest. At the same time, a true friend will never ask you to compromise or jeopardize any part of yourself in order to be their friend."

•  Loyalty. A loyal friend will have your back no matter what, Quinn says. "They will stand up for you and with you when the need arises," she says. "They won't speak ill of you to others and they don't let others speak bad about you either." Loyalty is not an easy trait to find, but it's essential to any really good relationship, Quinn says.

"As years go by, I think most of us start to realize that it is no longer the quantity of friends that matter, but the quality," Quinn says. "You just build a great bond with some people and you can call on each other in times of trouble. Good friends are hard to find, but impossible to forget."

About Darlene Quinn

Darlene Quinn (www.darlenequinn.net) is an author and journalist from Long Beach, Calif., whose novels about deceit, intrigue and glamour in the retail fashion industry were inspired by her years working in management with Bullocks Wilshire Specialty department stores. Her latest is "Conflicting Webs," the fifth book in her epic Web series. Previous titles in the series have been "Webs of Fate," "Webs of Power," "Twisted Webs" and "Unpredictable Webs."

Former Miss Deaf America Says Act Helped Tear Down Barriers

The day the Americans With Disabilities Act passed in 1990, U.S. Sen. Tom Harkin delivered a speech from the Senate floor in a way most of his colleagues didn't understand.

Harkin, the bill's sponsor, used sign language for the benefit of his brother who was deaf and had taught Harkin this lesson: "People should be judged on the basis of their abilities and not on the basis of their disabilities."

With the country marking the Act's 25th anniversary, Brandi Rarus, a former Miss Deaf America, remembers how important it was for people with disabilities to make it known they would no longer allow others to set limits on what they could achieve.

"Those of us with disabilities face many barriers," says Rarus, co-author with Gail Harris of the book "Finding Zoe: A Deaf Woman's Story of Identity, Love and Adoption." (www.brandirarus.com)

"Some of those are unavoidable. I can't listen to the radio as I drive to work in the morning. Often, because of communication barriers, I have to work twice as hard as a hearing person. Instead of taking me five minutes to make a doctor's appointment, it takes me 10."

But some barriers are avoidable, Rarus says. And that's why the Americans With Disabilities Act has played such an important role in people's lives for the last 25 years.

The ADA prohibits discrimination against qualified individuals with disabilities when it comes to employment issues. The Act also requires employers to make reasonable accommodations for a disability unless it causes an "undue hardship."

Harris, a professional storyteller and Rarus' co-author, says that although Rarus is deaf, her life struggles are similar to everyone's.

"We can all relate to finding our place in the world and fitting in, about self-acceptance, about being judged and judging others, and how we must look past all that to fulfill our dreams," says Harris. (www.gailharrisauthor.com)

The U.S. Department of Labor says many concerns about the ADA never materialized. According to the department:

•  Complying isn't expensive. The majority of workers with disabilities do not need accommodations, and for those who do, the cost is usually minimal. In fact, 57 percent of accommodations cost nothing, according to the Job Accommodation Network, a service from the Department of Labor's Office of Disability Employment Policy.

•  Lawsuits have not flooded the courts. The majority of ADA employment-related disputes are resolved through informal negotiation or mediation. The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, which enforces the ADA's employment provisions, investigates the merits of each case and offers alternatives to litigation. The number of ADA employment-related cases represents a tiny percentage of the millions of employers in the U.S.

•  The ADA is rarely misused. If an individual files a complaint under the ADA and does not have a condition that meets its definition of disability, the complaint is dismissed. While claims by people with false or minor conditions may get media attention, the reality is these complaints are usually dismissed.
Rarus, who became deaf at age 6 when she contracted spinal meningitis, was making strides toward success even before the passage of the ADA.

Winning the Miss Deaf America crown in 1988 led to numerous opportunities. She signed the National Anthem at a Chicago Cubs game. She spoke at corporate conferences and traveled the country speaking out for deaf children and building awareness of what it means to be deaf. She was understudy for Marlee Matlin in the play "Children of a Lesser God."

Her latest project is "Finding Zoe." The book Rarus and Harris joined forces to write tells the story of Rarus' early years as she learned to live with being deaf, but the focal point becomes her effort to adopt Zoe, a deaf infant caught in the foster care system.

Harris, upon collaborating with Rarus on her story, was on a mission to help bring it forth, as everyone is deserving of basic human rights. "People don't realize what the deaf have gone through," she says.

Working with Rarus and the anniversary of the ADA have reminded her of the challenges all people face, whether black or white, deaf or hearing, gay or straight.

"It's how we deal with them that counts," Harris says. "Brandi's courage and tenacity can get us thinking about our own vulnerabilities and how they can make us strong."

About Brandi Rarus and Gail Harris

Brandi Rarus (www.brandirarus.com), who lost her hearing at age 6, has traveled the country speaking out for deaf children and building awareness of what it means to be deaf. She was Miss Deaf America in 1988. She and her husband live in Austin, Texas, with their three sons and adopted daughter.

Gail Harris (www.gailharrisauthor.com) is an award-winning writer and teacher of the intuitive process who also adopted a child. In addition to co-writing "Finding Zoe," she is the author of "Your Heart Knows the Answer." She lives with her husband and son in Framingham, Mass

Democracy Scholar Notes Crucial Distinction Between Importing - Rather Than Exporting - Democracy

Troubled or otherwise failed governments continue to yield international headlines for the violence that fills the resulting power struggle in some nations.

Meanwhile, political, military and academic leaders struggle to find ways to implement democracy amid the chaos.

"What many laypeople may intuit but fail to fully grasp is that democracy is the best-known path to peace - both in specific regions and the world in general," says Julie Fisher, a former program officer at the Kettering Foundation and former scholar in residence at Yale University. "George Bush was right about democracy, but wrong about how to achieve it."

Democracy is linked to improved economic performance, increased socioeconomic equality, political stability and good governance - and democracies rarely go to war with each other, she says.

"Today, we're still having the debate as to the best way to create democracy in failed states in the Middle East - should we risk American lives and vast amounts of treasure to save these regions, or should we take the hands-off approach?" she asks. "Exporting democracy militarily hasn't worked since the United States forcefully imposed it on Japan after World War II. Few Americans have the appetite to gamble with another massive military experiment overseas."

While exporting democracy has had a low success rate, indigenous nongovernmental organizations (NGOs)  that are willing to import democracy offer a promising alternative, she says.

"NGOs that  import democracy use ideas and practices that will actually work in their own countries," says Fisher, author of "Importing Democracy: The Role of NGOs in South Africa, Tajikistan and Argentina," (www.importingdemocracy.org). "They combine these ideas with the recovery and promotion of traditional democratic practices." In Tajikistan, for example, democratization NGOs work with local Majlis organizations, while encouraging them to include women.

Indigenous democratization NGOs, in collaboration with other nonprofit organizations,  are a marker of democratic possibilities. Their democratic agenda, outlined prophetically  by notable scholar Robert Dahl, includes:

•  Law-based civil liberties: Fisher quotes Gary Haugen and Victor Boutros: "Without pressure from other powerful actors in society, elites have little or no incentive to build legal systems that serve the poor."In her research, she has found that human-rights advocacy is possible even in autocratic political systems.  Although local-level reforms are easier than national ones, democratization NGOs have successfully lobbied to have  international human rights laws embedded in national legal codes.

•  Loyal opposition: Toleration of political diversity is a necessary condition for developing this practice. Democratization NGOs build a loyal opposition by strengthening the capacities of other organizations to become policy advocates.  This is particularly challenging in democracies-to-be because loyal opposition is uncharted territory. Even as a concept, let alone its functioning, loyal opposition requires political maturation on all sides. Although South Africa lacks a large opposition party,  South African democratization NGOs were leaders in a broad coalition which successfully sued the government over its failure to prevent mother-child transmission of HIV through antiretroviral drugs.

•  Political participation: How do you know whether anyone likes or supports anything? Participation is probably the clearest indicator. Of course, before citizens can show an interest in their own democracy, having the ability to actually participate under safe conditions is necessary. Democratization NGOs based in local South African communities seem to be particularly adept at getting citizens to interact with local governments.  Argentine democratization NGOs have pioneered the use of public deliberation to engage citizens in solving local problems.

"In addition, national efforts to nurture a democratic political culture indicate that an international effort to democratize a region is a worthwhile investment," she says. "But international donors have to do their homework and build on what democratization NGOs are already doing."

About Julie Fisher

Julie Fisher (www.importingdemocracy.org), a specialist on indigenous nongovernmental organizations, is a retired program officer at the Kettering Foundation, a think tank on democracy. Previously, she was a Scholar in Residence at the Program on Non-Profit Organizations at Yale University and a lecturer in the Biology Department for a course on World Population. She also taught comparative politics and "The Politics of Third World Development" at Connecticut College. As a specialist on nongovernmental organizations and micro-enterprise development, she has been a consultant to CIVICUS, Technoserve, CARE, Trickle Up, Lutheran World Relief and Save the Children. Fisher received her B.A. in International Relations at Pomona College, in Claremont, California and her M.A. and Ph.D. degrees from the Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies in Washington, DC.

3 Reasons A Fitness and Wellness Regimen Can Empower Women
Celebrity Trainer Holly Perkins Says Women Should Look Great To Please Themselves, Not Others

From an early age, women have foisted on them images of the "ideal" female body, and self-esteem can plummet when they fail to measure up.

But celebrity trainer Holly Perkins says it's time women stop buying into those societal pressures.

"There's this perception that all women need to look like perfect runway models," says Perkins, a leading national weight-loss expert. "They can feel the anxiety building when they are trying to meet someone else's expectations. That's when the effort to lose weight or get fit can add to the stresses of life instead of relieving them."

Certainly, women should want to improve their health, get fit and look gorgeous all at the same time, says Perkins, who recently released a home-exercise system designed specifically for women called baladea (www.baladea.com), with regimens she developed to fuse fitness and wellness exercises.

But getting in shape needs to be something women want for themselves, and not an effort to mimic some airbrushed image on a magazine cover at the supermarket, she says.

Perkins realized several years ago that her clients met their weight-loss goals faster when she created programs that addressed both their fitness and wellness needs at the same time.

They also felt happier about themselves. So she incorporated yoga and other stress-relieving and relaxation techniques into the baladea program.

Perkins offers three reasons why the right fitness and wellness regimen can empower women and emancipate them from society's image pressures:

•  Because looking good makes you feel good. That's especially true when you're trying to look good to please yourself and not others, Perkins says. "There's this sense of empowerment when you exercise, eat a healthier diet and lose weight because it's what you want and not because of peer pressure or societal pressures," she says.

Self-esteem rises when you improve your image on your terms, she says, and as a result "looking gorgeous never felt better."

•  Because the science says so. Research shows that stress can keep you from losing weight and might even cause you to add pounds. Even if you eat well and exercise, an excessive amount of stress can counteract all your efforts. That's why meshing fitness and wellness works so well, Perkins says.

"Stress reduction and relaxation can significantly improve weight loss," she says. "That allows you to look and feel your absolute best."

•  Because while improving your look, you also become healthier. You will feel amazing not just because of elevated self-esteem, but because your body really is functioning better because of the diet and exercise, Perkins says. Your energy level will rise and "you will feel ready for anything," she says.

"You can look awesome and you can feel happy at the same time," Perkins says. "It's all about letting your true self shine."

About Holly Perkins

Holly Perkins is a national fitness expert and developer of baladea (www.baladea.com), a customizable fitness and wellness system for women. She holds a bachelor's degree in Exercise Physiology and is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), one of the most prestigious certifications in the industry. She believes that making fitness a fun lifestyle is the best way to achieve true change. As one of the nation's leading weight-loss experts and a highly sought-after celebrity trainer, she has been featured in numerous magazines, newspapers and on national TV shows.

The Prescription Could Be An Injection
Of Humanity, Physician Says

The changes in medical care over the last five decades have been dramatic.

Technological and scientific advances gave patients access to a level of medical diagnosis and care previously undreamed of.

During this time, Medicare, Medicaid and the Affordable Care Act provided more people with the opportunity to take advantage of that care.

Yet despite all that extraordinary progress something is missing, says J. Joseph Marr, author of the book "Fall From Grace: A Physician's Retrospective on the Past Fifty Years of Medicine and the Impact of Social Change." (www.jjmarr.com)

The role of the physician as healer and patient confidant has degenerated to manager of a health care team. The personal interaction of physician and patient has largely disappeared as well.

The problem as Marr sees it is this: The entry of corporate for-profit health care destroyed the soul of medicine; it destroyed the doctor-patient relationship through its demands for brief patient encounters; and, most important, changed the focus of medicine from patient care to quarterly earnings.

"The tragedy in the past half century is that the astounding improvements in technology have cost us the human touch," he says. "That's almost completely because of corporate business practices in the health-care and insurance industries."

The system is not going to change, Marr says, but the medical community could improve it by injecting more humanity into the system.

"The interaction between a person with a medical problem and the physician who attempts to heal that person is one of the most human and personal of relationships," he says. "But it does not lend itself to accounting ledgers, quarterly earnings postings and visits per hour."

Marr says there are several ways the medical community can try to make a difference:

•  Shine the light on misinformation. Physicians can educate the public to counter direct advertising about drugs and talk show misinformation. This would require a conscious change in attitude and a rededication to the physician-patient relationship that once existed, Marr says. This attitude change would communicate itself quickly to the patient. What was once a brief, impersonal office visit would become more personal, even if still brief.

•  Create a relationship. Physicians can put that attitude change into practice with an extra question about family, some advice beyond drugs or surgical procedures, and the kinds of human inquiries that we all appreciate, but are largely absent from current patient encounters. "Physicians still are shocked by what has occurred and cowed by the pronouncements that come from the corporate philistines in charge of health care," Marr says.

•  Speak up. Most people recognize the high cost of care as a very serious problem for the country. Physicians, individually and collectively, must speak out against these costs and advocate measures to mitigate them, Marr says. A demonstration by the medical profession that it is as appalled by the changes in health care as is the general public would go far toward restoring the public trust in physicians, he says.

"Fifty years ago we physicians were accustomed to speaking out against injustice and expressing our opinions openly," Marr says. "When did we become so passive and pliable? Are we as concerned about money and perquisites as those in the corporate suites? Let us hope not and begin to behave accordingly."

About J. Joseph Marr, MD

J. Joseph Marr, MD is a retired academic physician and pharmaceutical and biotechnology executive. He earned a bachelor's degree in biology from Xavier University in Ohio, and his medical degree from the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. Dr. Marr has been a member of Boards of Directors of public, private, and nonprofit organizations. He is the author of more than 200 academic publications; authored and edited six books; and published short stories, essays, and poems. He lives near Denver, Colorado.

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