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By Jason Alderman

One of the most important decisions you'll make when writing your will is determining who should be named executor of your estate. Even if you're just leaving behind household goods and a small savings account, someone - whether appointed by you or the state court - must settle your affairs.

Some people consider it an honor - or duty - to take responsibility for ensuring that their loved one's final wishes are carried out. But serving as an executor can be onerous and time-consuming, even for those with a strong financial or legal background. In a worst-case scenario, executors who act imprudently or in violation of their duties can be sued by beneficiaries and creditors.

Plus, you'll likely have to deal with the dreaded probate, a court-supervised process of locating and determining the value of the deceased's assets, paying final bills and taxes, and distributing what's left to the heirs.

Before you agree to serve as an estate's executor, make sure you understand what will be required of you. Major responsibilities often include :

  • Manage paperwork on behalf of the estate, including the will, trusts, insurance policies, bank, investment and retirement account statements, birth and death certificates, marriage, prenuptial agreement or divorce papers, military service records, real estate deeds, tax records, etc.
  • If the estate is complicated or likely to be contentious, you may want to hire a lawyer and/or accountant to help navigate the maze of paperwork.
  • File a certified copy of the will with the local probate court, which will determine if probate is necessary.
  • If the probate court confirms you as executor, you'll be issued a document called "letters testamentary," which gives you legal authority to act on the estate's behalf, including opening a bank account in the name of the estate to pay outstanding debts (loans, utilities, medical bills, credit card balances, etc.)
  • Notify all interested parties of the death. These might include : government agencies (Social Security, Veterans Administration, Medicare, U.S. Post Office, DMV); financial institutions; creditors; current and former employers; retirement plan administrators; investment firms; insurance companies; doctors and other professionals; landlord or tenants; utilities, etc.
  • You'll often need to send a copy of the death certificate to close out accounts, claim insurance benefits, change ownership of assets or accounts to the estate or a beneficiary, so order ample copies through the funeral home or county health department.
  • Locate assets, including personal property, bank accounts and safe deposit box contents, and ensure that they are protected until sold or distributed to inheritors. This may involve updating home and car insurance, changing locks, overseeing appraisals of property that must be sold, etc.
  • Collect money owed to the estate, such as outstanding wages, insurance benefits, retirement plan benefits and rents.
  • Notify heirs about their bequest.
  • File the deceased's final federal, state and local tax returns, as well as federal and state estate tax returns, if applicable.
  • Once probate has closed, you will distribute the remaining assets to named beneficiaries.
  • Because acting as an executor can be very time-consuming (often taking months or years), you are allowed to charge the estate a fee for your time - usually a percentage of the estate's value, as dictated by state law.

In short, both parties should thoroughly understand what's required of an estate's executor to make sure it's a good fit. There's no shame in saying no if it's beyond your abilities, and plenty of professional help is available - and advisable - if you do need assistance.

Author & Global Corporate Speaker Says It's Time
to Focus on Individuals' Strengths

An alarming Gallup poll published earlier this year is still sending shockwaves throughout the business community: Most American workers either hate their jobs or don't care one way or the other about them.

Less than a third of Americans are actively engaged in their work, meaning they're passionate about it, enthusiastic and energetic. They're consistently productive, and high performing.

Gallup estimates the 20 million who are "actively disengaged" - openly negative and unhappy have a staggering effect on the economy, costing the United States $450 to $550 billion each year in lost productivity.

"To engage the 70 percent of non-committal or 'actively disengage' employees,  business managers need to change how they view human capital," says Trevor Wilson, CEO of TWI Inc., a global corporate speaker, human equity strategist and author of "The Human Equity Advantage," (humanequityadvantage.com).

"Engaging employees is an issue I've been working on for more than two decades, and there is a solution. I call it human equity -- the unique assets each individual brings to the workplace that are often unrecognized. Recognizing and leveraging your own human equity, as well as that of your employees, addresses not only the incredible waste of human capital illustrated in the recent poll, but also related concerns business leaders share, including the constant need for innovation. These challenges are not unique to the United States."

There is a reason why executive royalty, such as Warren Buffet and former General Electric CEO Jack Welsh, sought talent beyond traditional criteria like knowledge and skills, which are also important, says Wilson. He offers a method for uncovering valuable intangibles in employees; he calls it the SHAPE V Talent model:

• Strengths: Consider strength as defined by the 1999 Gallup StrengthsFinder study, which includes "consistent near-perfect performance in an activity." The study identifies 34 qualities, which can be innate and, unlike skills, are not learned. Individual employees and managers should not force a square peg into a round hole; if an employee's near-perfect, near-effortless strength is in research and analysis, but not so much in data management, managers should allocate this resource accordingly.

• Heart: Have you ever wondered what comes first, whether you're good at something because you like it, or you like it because you're good at it? The chicken-or-egg question aside, what matters is the passion one has for a talent. This includes activities a worker would do even if he or she didn't have to do it on the job. If a talented manager won the lottery and decided to quit his job, for example, he might be inclined to manage people in a local political campaign or take the helm of his son's little league team.

• Attitude: There are three general attitudes an employee might have, according to a branch of study in positive psychology. First, there are those who approach their work as a job, who seek only a paycheck and benefits. The second group includes those with a career perspective who seek advancement. The third group views their work as a calling and deeply connects with what they do every day.

• Personality: In 2009, nearly $500 million was spent on personality testing in North America alone. A reliable test isn't valuable in so much as it reveals differences among workers, which are most likely already apparent. The value of these tests is in showing how and where differences lie. Understanding differences can lead to an appreciation for how and why coworkers perform and improve the synergy of teams.

• Experience: Who is the person you're sitting next to at work; who is she when she's not making business-to-business calls, scheduling meetings or troubleshooting technical problems? How does her race, religion, economic background, family situation and overall lifestyle influence - or not influence - her work life? More importantly, how might her life beyond work offer diversity of thought in the workplace? Life experience should not be overlooked when assessing talent.

• Virtue: "Value in action, that's virtue," Wilson says. Candor, temperance, courage - these traits preempt problems like public scandals, harassment and discrimination and foster a positive moral pragmatism among coworkers and practical wisdom among leaders. With social media continuing to expose bad behavior and employee morale revealed to be at a stunning low, this is a significant quality in the on-going search for the best talent.

About Trevor Wilson

Trevor Wilson is the CEO of TWI Inc. and creator of the human equity management model. He is the global diversity, inclusion and human equity strategist who regularly speaks at corporate functions. TWI's clients include some of the most progressive global employers in the world, including Coca-Cola, Ernst & Young, BNP Paribas and Home Depot. TWI's trademarked human equity approach was instrumental in catapulting Coca-Cola's South Africa division to the top performing division worldwide.

MOLINE, Ill., Aug. 7, 2013 (GLOBE NEWSWIRE) -- QCR Holdings, Inc. (Nasdaq:QCRH) is proud to welcome Linda K. Neuman to its Board of Directors. Linda Neuman served as a district court judge for the 7th Judicial District of Iowa and in 1986 became the first woman to serve on the Iowa Supreme Court. She served on the Iowa Supreme Court until her retirement from the bench in 2003. Ms. Neuman currently maintains a private practice specializing in arbitration and mediation and is a faculty supervisor and instructor for the University of Iowa Law School. Ms. Neuman earned a BA from the University of Colorado in 1970, a JD from the University of Colorado School of Law in 1973, and a LLM from the University of Virginia in 1998.

Ms. Neuman is highly respected in the legal community for her well-crafted and researched opinions, her application of the law, and her dedication to the judicial system. She has been active in many professional, civic, and church organizations including the American, Iowa, and Scott County Bar Associations, the National Association of Women Judges, and received a gubernatorial appointment to the National Commission on Uniform State Laws in 2004. Area non-profits that Ms. Neuman has lent her talents to include : United Way of the Quad Cities, St. Ambrose University, Davenport One, Marriage and Family Counseling Service of Scott and Rock Island Counties, Vera French Community Mental Health Center, Scott County Board of Social Welfare, Scott County Library Foundation, Royal Neighbors of America, and the Bettendorf Chamber of Commerce. Currently, she serves as the Co-Chancellor for the Episcopal Diocese of Iowa, is a Director for the Community Foundation of the Great River Bend and the See Life Clearly Foundation, and is a Community Advisory Committee member for Augustana College's Center for the Study of Ethics. Ms. Neuman has served on the board of Quad City Bank & Trust, a wholly owned subsidiary of QCR Holdings, Inc., since 2008.

Ms. Neuman has received numerous awards for her community service, leadership and expertise. She was awarded the Iowa State Bar Association's President's Award in June of 2013, was the first recipient of the Equity for Women Award from the Iowa 50-50 in 2020 Board, the Quad Cities Athena Business Women's Award in 2009, the Award for Distinguished Achievement from the University of Colorado in 1989, and the Exceptional Achievement Award from the Mississippi Valley Girl Scout Council in 1988.

"Linda is the perfect addition to our Board as she shares in our belief of the value of strong client relationships and exceptional customer service. Her outstanding career and varied community service speaks volumes to her dedication to others," said Doug Hultquist, President and CEO of QCR Holdings, Inc. "Linda's keen insights and diverse experiences will be an enormous asset to our holding company."

ABOUT QCR HOLDINGS, INC. - QCR Holdings, Inc., headquartered in Moline, Illinois, is a relationship-driven, multi-bank holding company, which serves the Quad City, Cedar Rapids, and Rockford communities through its wholly owned subsidiary banks. Quad City Bank & Trust Company, which is based in Bettendorf, Iowa, and commenced operations in 1994, Cedar Rapids Bank & Trust Company, which is based in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, and commenced operations in 2001, and Rockford Bank & Trust Company, which is based in Rockford, Illinois, and commenced operations in 2005, provide full-service commercial and consumer banking and trust and asset management services. Quad City Bank & Trust Company also engages in commercial leasing through its wholly owned subsidiary, m2 Lease Funds, LLC, based in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. With the  acquisition of Community National Bancorporation on May 13, 2013, the Company now serves the Austin, Minnesota community as well as the Cedar Falls, Mason City, and Waterloo, Iowa communities through  community National Bank. Community National Bank, which is based in Waterloo, Iowa, and commenced operations in 1997, provides full-service commercial and consumer banking and trust and asset management services.

Washington, D.C. - Congressman Dave Loebsack released the following statement today after Secretary of Defense Chuck Hagel announced that the number of furlough days civilian employees, including Rock Island Arsenal employees, must take was reduced to six.  Earlier this year, the Secretary had set the number of furlough days at 11 due to budget cuts that were created by sequestration and other budgetary factors. Loebsack has been opposed to these drastic cuts since they were created by the Budget Control Act, which he voted against.   He has repeatedly called on Congressional leaders to work to find a balanced, commonsense way to replace sequestration and responsibly deal with the fiscal situation facing the nation.

"While today's announcement by Secretary Hagel is encouraging news for the men and women at the Rock Island Arsenal, it is unconscionable that civilian workers were forced to take a pay cut because of dysfunction in Washington. I opposed the creation of sequestration and I adamantly opposed the decision to furlough any dedicated individuals who work every day on behalf of our troops and national security.  I remain committed to working on a bipartisan basis to replace sequestration with responsible deficit reduction that grows the economy and creates job.  I will continue to fight for the hardworking men and women at Rock Island Arsenal and the people who sequestration has affected most."

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Common Goal Unites Industry, Education and Government to Make a Lasting Impact

August 5 - The Iowa-Advanced Manufacturing (I-AM) Consortium and Iowa Association of Business and Industry (ABI) jointly announce the launch of a new campaign to promote careers and educational pathways in advanced manufacturing. The "Elevate Advanced Manufacturing" campaign will begin by addressing the current public perception of manufacturing and educating Iowans on the opportunities that exist within this industry.

By 2018, there will be a shortage of 6,672 skilled workers in the advanced manufacturing sector*. These available positions offer attractive pay and benefits packages. According to the Bureau of Economic Analysis in 2011, the average manufacturing worker made $77,060 annually, including pay and benefits, while the average worker in other industries earned $60,168.

"When you ask the average Iowan about advanced manufacturing, they think of an outdated image - a dirty, unsafe work environment," says Mike Ralston, President of ABI. "That simply is not the case. Iowa has strong, innovative companies that produce cutting-edge products and are well-regarded as leaders in their industry," says Ralston.

A website,www.elevateiowa.com , has been launched to support this campaign with the use of video testimonials, self-assessment career guides, job search tools and training information.

"Iowa's 15 community colleges offer a range of training opportunities within advanced manufacturing," says Stephanie Ferraro, Project Manager of I-AM Grant. "With the I-AM Grant building capacity for these programs, many schools have developed plans for industry-influenced curriculum, embedding industry credentials and the purchase of state-of-the-art equipment. Now is the ideal time for those considering careers in manufacturing to begin their training at their local community college."

Manufacturing contributes the largest share of Iowa's gross domestic product (GDP) at an annual level of $27.6 billion, more than 18 percent of the state's economy. As of March 2012, Iowa's manufacturing firms supplied 215,600 jobs to Iowans, representing 14% of the state's total employment - and that number is growing.

In order to make a lasting impact on the state of Iowa's economy, many sectors have combined efforts including industry, government and education. Key players include ABI, the I-AM Consortium, a collaboration of all 15 Iowa Community Colleges, and the inclusion of various programs throughout the State of Iowa including the Governor's STEM initiative, Iowa Workforce Development's online Job Bank and more. Each party has a common goal: to elevate the perception of advanced manufacturing and to arm Iowans with the skills they need to engage in Iowa's workforce.

Elevate Advanced Manufacturing's message and efforts are in action throughout the state, including:

·      The Elevate campaign website will feature video testimonials, a self-assessment for potential career pathways, career search tools (powered by Iowa Workforce Development), information on training opportunities (at Iowa's 15 community colleges), and ways for industry to get involved. Visit: www.elevateiowa.com

·      Educational opportunities and curriculum integration with K-12 schools involving advanced manufacturing tours, speakers and demonstrations.

·      Statewide media campaign using testimonials from skilled employees and manufacturers in Iowa.

·   Statewide events including exhibits at the Iowa State Fair with the American Welding Society booth, Iowa Speedway (Sept.7-8), Girls Scouts of Iowa Annual Conference and more.


The Iowa Advanced Manufacturing Consortium (I-AM) is an Iowa community college initiative to elevate advanced manufacturing, funded through a $13 million grant from the U.S. Department of Labor's Trade Adjustment Assistance Community College and Career Training (TAACCCT) Grant Program.

The Iowa Association of Business and Industry (ABI) has been the voice of Iowa business since 1903, and its mission is to collectively provide value to business and industry on issues impacting Iowa employers. ABI is currently comprised of over 1,400 Iowa businesses of all types and sizes employing more than 300,000 Iowans


*State and Regional Employment Analyses

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Too many people end up getting less than what's due them from Social Security when they retire because they don't know the rules and the real financial impacts, says independent retirement advisor Gary Marriage, Jr.

"There's a lot of talk about the future of Social Security, but we still have this benefit and if you're 50 or older, you should be planning to make the best use of it," Marriage says.

Marriage, CEO of Nature Coast Financial Advisors (www.naturecoastfinancial.com), which specializes in maximizing retirees' finances, shares important facts to keep in mind as you plan for how Social Security will factor in your retirement:

•  "Can I convince you to wait a few more years?" Many people are understandably eager to retire as early as possible; others fear Social Security retirement benefits will suddenly vanish, so they want to get what they can as quickly as possible - at age 62. But if you're counting on those benefits as part of your income, you should wait until you're eligible for the full amount. That's age 66 if you were born 1943-54, and age 67 if you were born in 1960 and later. If you're in the older group, retiring at 62 cuts your benefits by a quarter; for the younger group it's nearly a third. "Chances are, you'll be better of mentally and physically if you wait anyway," Marriage says. "Many studies show that people live longer and are more vital the longer they remain employed; more importantly."

• The reductions in Social Security add up to a considerable sum. The average retirement benefit in June of this year was 1,222.43, according to the Social Security Administration. People born in the 1943-54 group who are eligible for that amount at age 66 will get just $916.82 a month if they retire at 62. If they live to age 90, that's a total of $308,052.36. By waiting just four years, they'll net an additional $44,007.48. Waiting until age 70 can make you eligible for a bump in benefits - up to 8 percent a year - but there are no increases if you delay longer.

• If divorced, were you married for at least 10 years? Were you married for a decade and aren't currently remarried? You may be eligible to received benefits based on the former spouse's work record. Here are some of the other requisites: you must be age 62 or older, and the former spouse must be entitled to receive his or her own benefits. If the former spouse is eligible for a benefit, but has not yet applied for it, the divorced spouse can still receive a benefit. Additionally, two years must pass after the divorce.

About Gary Marriage

Gary Marriage, Jr. is the founder and CEO of Nature Coast Financial Advisors, which educates retirees on how to protect their assets, increase their income, and reduce their taxes. Marriage is a national speaker, delivering solutions for pre-retirees, business owners and seniors on the areas affecting their retirement and estates. He is an approved member of the National Ethics Bureau, and is featured in "America's Top Hometown Financial Advisors 2011." Marriage is also the founder of Operation Veteran Aid, an advocate for war-time veterans and their families.

Loebsack opposed a balanced budget which would have preserved Medicare for future generations 

Bustos opposed a balanced budget which would have preserved Medicare for future generations

WASHINGTON - Forty-eight years ago today, President Lyndon B. Johnson signed Medicare into law. How is Rep. Dave Loebsack celebrating this historic anniversary? By continually opposing plans that would balance the budget and preserve and protect Medicare for future generations.

"On the anniversary of Medicare, Dave Loebsack and Congressional Democrats should be ashamed of their votes to destroy this vital social program," said NRCC Communications Director Andrea Bozek. "Dave Loebsack's consistent opposition to a balanced budget is hurting seniors and bankrupting Medicare."

Loebsack's vote against the Republican balanced budget isn't the only vote that hurt Medicare recipients. Loebsack has also opposed fully repealing ObamaCare, which gutted Medicare by $716 billion. Recent reports have shown that doctors are abandoning Medicare payments due to ObamaCare's costs and regulations.

Dave Loebsack Voted Against The Republican Balanced Budget.

(H. Con. Res. 25, Roll Call #88, 3/21/13)

Dave Loebsack Voted Against Repealing ObamaCare.

(H.R. 45, Roll Call Vote # 154, 5/16/13)

Cheri Bustos Voted Against The Republican Balanced Budget.

(H. Con. Res. 25, Roll Call #88, 3/21/13)

Cheri Bustos Voted Against Repealing ObamaCare.

(H.R. 45, Roll Call Vote # 154, 5/16/13)

Fewer doctors are treating patients enrolled in Medicare because of ObamaCare's costs and regulations. ("More Doctors Steer Clear of Medicare," Melinda Beck, Wall Street Journal, 7/29/2013))

New Law Authorizes Low-Interest Loans to Help Firms Get Funding They Need to Secure Bonding and Equipment Financing

CHICAGO - Governor Pat Quinn today signed a new law that will establish a revolving loan program to increase minority- and female-owned business participation in state construction projects. Governor Quinn made this issue a priority in his 2013 State of the State address, and the new law is part of his agenda to make business opportunities available to everyone in Illinois and drive the state's economy forward.

"Small, minority-owned firms often don't have the necessary resources to bid on state construction projects, and this new law helps them get a foot in the door," Governor Quinn said. "As the loans are paid back, those funds help other firms who are in the same situation, which grows our economy and creates jobs."

House Bill 3267, sponsored by State Representative William Davis (D-Homewood) and State Senator Mattie Hunter (D-Chicago), creates the Disadvantaged Business Revolving Loan Program and allows the Illinois Department of Transportation to make low-interest loans to certified minority- and female-owned businesses that have construction contracts with the agency. Many of these firms are small and lack the ability to obtain the lines of credit necessary to secure the bonding and capital equipment financing needed for state construction projects.

An initial state investment of $3 million will start the revolving loan program. Once operational the program will be largely self-funding, with payments on existing loans allowing new loans to be made. The new law takes effect immediately.

"The contracts awarded by our state departments should reflect the diversity of Illinois," Representative Davis said. "This measure helps to provide equal opportunities for firms owned by socially and economically disadvantaged individuals."

"I have worked tirelessly to create a state financing program that will level the playing field for all businesses by providing working capital to contractors who are shut out by the banks but, are qualified to successfully complete state construction projects," Senator Hunter said. "A subcontractor's inability to attain lines of credit severely hinders them from attaining bonding or becoming prime contractors. This legislation works to eliminate one of the major barriers to meeting those goals."

The new law will help these firms take part in Governor Quinn's $31 billion Illinois Jobs Now! program, which is supporting more than 439,000 jobs over six years. Illinois Jobs Now! is the largest capital construction program in Illinois history, and is one of the largest capital construction programs in the nation.

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Uriel Lynn will discuss local export opportunities to Israel at August 22nd business event

ROCK ISLAND, IL - The Jewish Federation of the Quad Cities announces that Uriel (urr-ee-ull) Lynn, President of the Federation of Israeli Chambers of Commerce, will appear in the Quad Cities Thursday, August 22nd - 9:00 AM to Noon. He will lead a presentation and networking event on export opportunities for local small and medium size businesses to the State of Israel.

Scheduled for the QC Waterfront Convention Center, 2021 State Street, Bettendorf, IA, the event is free and open to the business community, but RSVP's are required by Monday, August 19th. Recommended attendees include CEO's and Sales Managers for companies in manufacturing, technology, production of raw materials and pharmaceuticals. For questions and to RSVP, contact the Jewish Federation of the Quad Cities at (309) 793-1300 or email events@jfqc.org.

Lynn boasts an extensive career as an attorney, business executive and political leader in Knesset, the Israeli parliament (see attached bio). Regularly contributing to trade and news publications on a variety of subjects, he has served on a number of corporate boards and governmental agencies in Israel. Lynn's opening keynote presentation entitled, "Israel as a Market" will provide background on export opportunities with his country.

Also attending is Dan Carmely (Car-muh-lee), Vice President of the Federation of Israeli Chambers of Commerce, and representatives from the Consul for Economic Affairs with the Government of Israel Economic Mission to the Midwest in Chicago, IL and the America-Israel Chamber of Commerce-Chicago. They will join with Iowa and Illinois economic development specialists for an introduction to making export to Israel simple for small and medium size businesses.

"Israel is a world leader in agritech, computer science, alternative energy, medical devices, pharmaceuticals, communications and revolutionary high technology innovations," said Allan Ross, Executive Director, Jewish Federation of the Quad Cities. "However, they still rely heavily on imports to sustain growth. This opportunity for small and medium size Quad City businesses to connect with Israeli companies and identify export partnerships could result in job growth for our local economy. That would be a win-win situation for all."

The Jewish Federation of the Quad Cites (www.jfqc.org) is a non-profit, 501 c (3) Illinois corporation founded in 1980. With other local organizations, JFQC addresses a broad range of needs to include cultural, religious, educational, family welfare, care of the elderly and interfaith relations. The Federation combats hate and anti-Semitism by supporting religious liberty and civil rights for everyone.

A core mission of JFQC is to preserve, protect, enrich and enhance Jewish communal life and the well-being of Jews locally, in Israel and throughout the world. It is a proud member of the Jewish Federations of North America (www.jewishfederations.org). The Jewish Federation of the Quad Cities is also on Facebook at www.facebook.com/jewishfedqc.

'It's a Relationship That's Not Going Away,' Advises Female Financial Expert

If you're a woman, chances are good that in the years ahead, it will be you and you alone who's responsible for managing your money.

That could be a problem: Even among the very affluent, many women admit they know little to nothing about bigger-picture money concerns such as financial planning and investment management, according to a recent survey.

"A lot of women cede those responsibilities to their husbands or partners because they say they don't have the time, interest or opportunity to learn," says Luna Jaffe, Certified Financial Planner™, psychotherapist, and author of the new "Wild Money: A Creative Journey to Financial Wisdom" and its companion workbook, "Wild Money: A Financial Field Guide and Journal," (www.lunajaffe.com).

"Things are changing- more women are choosing not to marry or have been devastated by divorce or death of a loved one.  They recognize they can't ignore money any more, but don't know where to turn or who to trust."

But even women with a net worth of at least $1 million concede they aren't especially knowledgeable about money management. In the Women & Wealth Study sponsored by GenSpring Family Offices, only a third said they know a lot about financial planning, and 30 percent said the same for investment management.

Part of the problem is that financial education is male-oriented, catering to how men's brains are wired and what appeals to them, Jaffe says.

"When we approach it creatively and from a more emotion-based perspective, women are not only drawn to learning about it, they have no trouble getting it," Jaffe says.

She offers these three things every woman should know about their relationship to money:

• Your investment decisions are influenced by your emotional baggage.
We all bring baggage into our relationships, and it's no different with money, Jaffe says. When you're not aware of the baggage operating quietly in the background, you may think you're making smart decisions when you're actually simply reacting to past experiences. And those might not have been even your own experiences! "Whether you or a loved one suffered the consequences of a bad financial investment, it can color your thinking in many ways, from destroying your confidence in your judgment to writing off all similar investments as 'bad.' '' Take time to reflect on the experiences you've had with investing, the decisions you made, and the conclusions you made as a result. What stories do you tell yourself because of these experiences?

•  Understand the emotional response with which you receive money, whether a paycheck, a gift or an inheritance. It's important to receive money with grace - to savor it, to be grateful for it, to be at peace with it. But depending on the circumstances by which it arrives, and lingering emotions from past experiences, we sometimes receive money with anger, guilt, resentment, greed, entitlement or any of a host of other negative emotions. This can lead to self-destructive actions. Jaffe shares a story about receiving a small inheritance from her father at a time when she had no money. She loaned the whole sum to a friend, who promptly vanished. "I was still grieving his death, and I received money that represented his legacy, yet it was only a tiny fraction of his estate - his second wife got everything else. Deep inside, I felt ripped off. Perhaps I thought by loaning my inheritance, I could wash the confusion and grief out of the money making it clean and safe to use. "

• Know your Comfort Zone for risk and stay within it. Investment comes with risks; you can assume a lot for potentially greater returns, or less for lower returns. Understanding your Comfort Zone and staying within it will help you stay committed to your financial plan. Would your best friend describe you as a risk taker? If you got $100,000 with instructions to invest it all in just ONE of these options - stocks, a savings account, a mutual fund portfolio of stocks and bonds, or your best friend's start-up - which would you choose? Knowing whether you're very conservative; happy with a little growth; comfortable with some ups and downs; or in for adventure will help you avoid taking financial advice that makes you uncomfortable.

About Luna Jaffe

Luna Jaffe is a Certified Financial Planner™ and Accredited Asset Management Specialist with more than 10 years of financial advising experience. She holds a master's degree in Depth Psychology and a bachelor's in Bilingual Education. Jaffe is a popular speaker whose creative compassionate approach to financial guidance differs sharply from male-oriented approaches. Securities and advisory services offered through KMS Financial Services, Inc.

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